Garage Cleaning

It is that lovely time again for our family. Garage cleaning is not what I would call our favorite chore. In fact, it is a time when John and I don't get along well. Something about me putting on my "bossy" pants and deciding to get rid of all our possessions makes for a hostile situation. Go figure.

John loves reading. Always has and always will. He loves books: the way they smell, feel, look, the whole thing, which is why he doesn't own an electronic reader. I think he prefers learning whatever it is he is learning from the pages of book rather than the glow of an LED screen. I respect this notion, I really do. I love my husband's love of books and reading. It is, however, becoming a bit of a logistical problem. He wants to keep all these books for our "someday" library. I too want our own mini library. I mean, I haven't read any of the books in his library, but I think it will make the whole house look smart if we have all those books displayed. It's the moving of these books that is causing trouble. There are just so many and they are just so heavy. They take up space, collect dust, and require extra time to move. So when garage cleaning comes around you can bet this is a conversation we have. Every time. 

The other conversation/heated discussion we frequently have when garage cleaning is the matter of "stuff" or sentimental items. Thankfully we have each tried to meet somewhere in the middle and are beginning to get somewhere on this topic. I'm not a heartless person, I just don't like stuff. I don't like clutter, nick-nacks, or other various collectible items. Anything that has to be dusted, forget it. I have managed to condense much of my childhood and high school into one plastic box. John enjoys the memories and likes to collect certain things. My sister, who lives with us, has been a wonderful help in the garage cleaning, and acts as a great third party in times like this. 

It's my minimalist attitude versus John's sentimental side. We are getting there. He has taught me it is important to have things that remind us of special events and collections add character to a home, tell people who we are. I think I have taught him that photos also help in remembering important events and clearing out some of that "stuff" clears the mind and makes us feel better. John will be the one someday to have a collection of our kids' art work, cards, awards, etc and I will be the one that will keep us from needing a mansion and 3 storage units to contain all the miscellaneous scraps of many lives. 

So next time we clean the garage the task might be easier and faster, though I seriously doubt it. It's these events that make me want to pull my hair out during, but laugh later. 

-Hers

Here It Is...

Well... here it is. John and I have decided to start a blog. I know, it seems as though everyone we know has a blog. We decided to start our own for several reasons:
       1. We are luckily getting to know many beautiful and wonderful people. Many of these people are far away, so what better way to keep all those we love in the loop than through a blog?
       2.  John and I have found we know little and need to learn much! I suppose being a couple of our age it comes with the territory. I mean he is in his first year of being a pastor and I am only in my second year as a Speech Language Pathologist. There is so much we don’t know and are constantly learning about: life, marriage, finances, someday children, ministry, careers, even friendship. We figure it’s best to put it somewhere so maybe we can look back and remind ourselves when we inevitably forget.
       3. We think we are kinda different. Why not share and hope we meet more like us?

      4. I hear writing a blog is therapeutic...well it looks like it. The friends I have who write blogs and the blogs I read seem to have an air about them that says “this feels good!”

This blog will be a shared effort, which means sometimes John will post and sometimes I will post. We (and by "we" I really mean we, okay I think I suggested it and he liked it) chose the name "Our Shoe Closet". We wear many shoes everyday. For example on any given day I wear my speech language pathologist shoes, sister shoes, pastor's wife shoes, friend shoes, shopping shoes, crafting shoes, etc. John will quite often wear his Pastor shoes, husband shoes, grandson shoes, friend shoes, hobby seeking shoes, traveling shoes, board game lover shoes etc. We also have plain John and Ashley shoes. When we stood back and took a look in our “closet” we realized it was quite a collection; one we hope to add to in the future. I admit it is kinda cheesy, but I think it is cute. You have to admit it is super catchy.

We hope that through this handy blog we will be able to better explain and keep loved ones in the loop in our day-to-day lives. We are not really into making big important and personal status updates on Facebook. I don't enjoy sharing the personal stuff in that small box, knowing it just pops up on the informative news feed. It just seems strange. Generally John and I keep our Facebook stuff pretty mundane. I don't know how personal the blog will get, but hopefully it will shed some light on our comings and goings. Check in with us often to get all the news on the ups and downs and adventures of our life.

-Hers